It has been some time since I last updated my blog. Finally after so much rollercoaster rides, I gave birth to Jake! What a big relief!!! Now then I truely understand 妈妈是伟大的! Well... never too late to truely understand this statement.
My confinement lady was here since yesterday. She is quite a nice lady though... maybe my standard is too high... that's what my hubby always says when it comes to housework chores. I hate untidiness... I hate house to be oily... my kitchen is sOoooo oily!!! Smells like oil now!!! And the table cloth, the sink! She did not clean up after cooking the dinner and left it till the next day! What can I say??? Last time I used to clean whenever I did the cooking. I'm sure my parents will complain when they are here tomorrow. They are even more clean freaks than I do! How I miss my parents helping to do the household chores for me...:(
No matter what, I must tolerate for a month! I have to learn all the techniques to take care of bb. Hmmmm.... I'm sure after this experience, I will not prefer to hire any CL anymore if there's a chance to do so. TBT!!!
Blowing up like a balloon now... every single part of me are surrounded by fats! Fat hands, fat legs, fat face.... both legs are swollen now... luckily I don't have to go anywhere except to & fro the hosp. I suppose to bedrest... no shoppings... no going out is allowed.
Date is drawing nearer & nearer... & I am getting more & more excited!! Anytime from late this week onwards, my doc is willing to deliver for me... she will stop all my medications as well... OMG! Don't know which auspicious day & time bb is choosing to come out. Worse of all, I am home alone! Come to think of it... kind of scary sia! For this type of emergency, I don't have an EMERGENCY RESPONSE PLAN! Hmmm... I am not going to admit to hosp early if the condition permits... let's see how things goes on this coming Wed's checkup.
Found my long lost friend recently... hmmm... about 2 yrs of lost contact, is this considered long? I have been searching high & low for her all these while & we lost contact due to technical fault of mobile phone! How ridiculous! No other means of contact ... no msn... no fb... no email contact (no longer in use). Luckily I manage to find a common friend of ours who does keep in touch with her! Ehh... not with me though... but no choice... out of desperation, I went to approach her! Really is "wu shi bu deng san bao dian"!!!
I knew her through poly attachment... & we happened to be attached to the same company although we belonged to different modules then. And so coincidentally, we bumped into each other again when we went to uni. This time, we were classmates! It's so ironical that when we saw each other on the 1st day of school, out 1st exchange sentence was:"hey... how come u were here, u got enrol meh??? How come never hear u say???"... haha... cos all along, I did not have the intention to further my studies but my dear hubby who was my bf then took the application form & forced me to enrol... so that's how I managed to further my studies.
Okay... back to her... this friend of mine is very unique cos she is just like my nanny... ermmm.. not a nice word to use... but I'm trying to say that she is very dependable... very motherly type of person. She helps me plan all my modules ... counting the number of credits I need to fulfil in order to graduate. Frankly speaking, I never have to bother about all these details. She is my low maintenance friend! What do I mean by that? Okay, I consider friends mainly in 2 broad categories... cat 1 is low maintenance while cat 2 is high maintenance. Low maintenance means I don't have to put in extra efforts to maintain this friendship...of course I don't mean I don't cherish her friendship! I am trying to put across that no matter under what circumstances... whether we are put in the same environment or not... we will not have any awkward feelings once we have a chance to meet up even though we have not seen each other for years... we will still rattling non stop just like old friends. This kind of feeling is damn shiok!
I do have friends which fall into high maintenance cat! The only word I can use to describe is 辛苦!!! Seriously, when one gets older & older like me.... this becomes more & more valid! But everyone is different, that's for sure... as in everyone's focus in different stages of life. Some people will tend to treasure friendship more than anything else even though he/she is married! Buddies or sisters to friends! I have passed that prime stage & enter into the aunty's phase already.... =P Congratulations to me! Now I really enjoy the company of low maintenance friends... For those reading this & knows this blog of mine... no worries... I'm glad to announce that u all are not my high maintenance friends! =)
