I have been dealing with maid issues lately... not thorough in her work... lack of initiatives at my parent's place... lack of basic manners... dishonesty etcc.. & the list goes on.

Correct her on the spot whenever she does not perform up to my expectation.. My hb has been the bo chup one all along, he will only exercise his authority when need to. Maid thinks that he is Mr. Nice Guy & boasts to my bro's maid that he is v good...does not care what she is doing at all. ha... wait till she kena then she knows.

Just a few days ago when she was back from my in laws place, she wiped the baby's table, went straight to bath & wana go into her room to oink. C'mon it's only 7.45pm!!! I'm damn boiled!! Somemore she Never put any water into the sterilizer when doing the sterilization of milk bottles, & she even lied to me that she had done so. She thought she can fool me through... & sorry she's unable to since I am the only one doing all the sterilization all along before she was here. The floor was so dirty, kitchen table was not cleaned... & she still has the cheeks to turn in so early.

Treating her nice doesn't mean she can take full advantage of us! I'm not the type who can tolerate such nonsense!! Hopefully she shows signs of improvement... if not I won't hesitate to send her back. No point making myself so frustrated.... I have more important things in life than this... straighten out my thoughts... & I feel great!

Now I truly understand why people says having a maid is a real headache... Maid was sick & infected all the 3 babies in the house! The real issue here is not about her falling sick... She did not tell us the truth despite being asked several times. Instead she went to tell my bro's maid she's feeling so unwell but denied when asked by my parents.

Poor Jake... He's down with flu & unable to oink at night! But he's a tough boy, still as playful as he is. Gota make special arrangement tomorrow. Yawns... I'm so tired!

Tired tired tired.... Like sardines in the train. Created koister blog when I was still a domestic engineer... How time flies! 16 months just passed in a blink! What did I achieve? Needless to say... Most priceless achievement is none other than BJ!! At least I feel more contented than before. Now back to working life.. Not used to it! Morning rush sucks! 2 days per week is still manageable. Can I have the option to work part time? The feeling is great! One more relaxing day before I'm stepping into reality.. Zzzz

Time seems to tick away so fast nowadays! Ohh c'mon, I have not rested long enough... Can I hold on the clock for a moment pls?? Cherish every moments now & makes it count!! Isn't it too late?? I thought to myself... I have wasted so much precious time in the past since I have sooo much to waste! That's us people I suppose.... Never cherish when we are able to & live to regret when it's gone!! How pathetic!

Domestic helper ~ so far so good... Hopefully she shows her good attitude and consistency throughout. Treat people with mutual respect regardless of who this person is. I truly believe a happy worker is a productive worker! Kanbate!

Super no time to blog! Has been busy searching for a domestic helper lately. Searching high and low for one and found no suitable one available. In fact we found one and placed a deposit but was totally damn pissed being conned by the agent in bugis!! She gave the helper we chosen to another family! WTH!! No time to be angry and made a big scene down there but hurried to several agencies to continue our search. So much time wasted and it's not possible to get a new one from their hometown. We decided to get a transfer one instead.

Finally got one readily available due to my mum's "itchy hand" to dial one agency near her place. Initially I was kind of reluctant to take her as she's older than us. Hmmm... Not that I despise old people okay, just that I prefer someone younger. It's just a personal preference. In the end, I settle for this so called mature helper, partly due to time constraint I'm unable to wait any further.

Well I still prefer the one I saw in bugis agency. 无缘就别强求... We settle for the mature one, hopefully is 误打误撞，get a good one!! Keeping my fingers crossed!!